What it means and why it is so important for our lives

 

Unconditional love is a term -I think - a lot of people misunderstand.

 

It is a special kind of love that everyone of us is able to experience. 

 

But what makes unconditional love so special?

 

Unconditional Love is the purest state of love. It means loving a person just the way it is. You do not cling to an idea of someone you like or put that person on a pedestal built up from fantasies. And even more you are able to love without expecting anything in return.

It is a state of beeing where your ego is shut down completely and your heart and soul are the main actors. It is not only related to relationships with others but also to yourself (self-love). Even more it is that kind of love that rises positive energy in yourself and around you. No matter if is directed to other people or animals, nature, god, universe etc.

 

To get in that state of beeing and to send out that pure and genuine love it is manditory to have a healed heart and soul. Why? Because in the moment your heart and soul are still suffering from core wounds (link) you will always have a lack of love.

And that lack wants to be filled by your ego.

The result is that you will always get triggered by your fears and desires which activate your ego. 

(Your ego is that part of you that wants to be fed with fullfilled expectations, success and validation.)

 

Healing your core wounds is something I can recommend to everyone. It will help you to live a life based on love and not on your fears and desires. (link)

  

How to learn "unconditional love"?

 

First of all you have to free your heart again.

What does that mean?

 

If you ever ate an artichoke you know that the most precious part of it is covered under lots of layers: the artichoke`s heart. The leaves of the artichoke serve as a protection for the plant. With your heart its the same. Before you are able to discover the purest and most divine part of your heart you have to remove all those layers of supressed emotions and traumas which you have built to protect your heart.  

In the moment you overcome your protective shield you will find unconditional love for yourself and your surroundings.

 

In my opinion unconditional love is also a soul mission. It is something especially old soul choose to show to the world. Since I was a child it has always been the greatest feeling for me to bring joy and love into others peoples lifes. And mostly important I never expected anything in return. Not even a "thank you". The feeling of raising their energy by holding up my light was enough. 

 

Challenges of loving unconditionally

 

But their is an other side of unconditional love that can make life very hard for those kind of "lovers". In the moment you are living that pure love in relationships- especially romantic ones and friendships - it can get quite challenging. To avoid becoming a "people pleaser" it is so important to set boundaries.

Even more unconditional love ist not there to give others the feeling of receiving just "overflowing love"

. If people say "I love hard or I love strong" it does not necessarily mean that their love is genuine. It can mean that their ego is leading with the intention to control their counterpart in a relationship.

 

Very important:

Unconditional love is not there to fill the lack of others unhealed hearts. It is meant to raise there energies by facing them with your healed and open heart.  

In addition - I believe- that you don´t have to act like a "love seeker". In the moment you are living that state of sending out this divine love you are attracting people who will automatically come to you. They  get magnetized by your powerful aura. At least that is what I experienced. Your heart is sacred and people can feel it.

 

Divine Love only gives or receives love. It is never searching for it!

 

What impact does unconditional love has on our planet earth?

 

 In times where people think that it is most important to have a strong mind or ego, unconditional love is the solution that brings healing to this planet. In an ego driven world there is not much space for soulhealing. The ego wants to be fed. Emotions and feelings are not very helpful and they just delay the ego getting filled up with all that validation, success etc. 

 

 

As a person who is able to love unconditionally you are part of this worlds healing. Your are holding up the light for others who are stuck in in their ego perspective. People who live a fear based life on a low energy level. To rise that earth frequency you are the one who increases the energy by focusing on love based life.